Publicly known, Foo Fighters’ iconic frontman and Nirvana’s former drummer Dave Grohl has been in the limelight of rock and roll for many decades, but his marriage to wife Jordyn Blum really remains quite private. Together for more than 20 years, here is a story combining rock ‘n’ roll with personal family life, as well as ups and downs along the way.
Discover all the details you’ve always desired about Dave Grohl’s spouse, Jordyn Blum, and their shared life.
A Love Story That Kicked Off in a Bar
Dave Grohl and Jordyn Blum first crossed paths back in 2001 at the Sunset Marquis Whisky Bar in Los Angeles. Grohl had already secured a place in rock ‘n’ roll history thanks to Nirvana and was well on his way toward building another legacy with the Foo Fighters. Blum was a former model turned TV producer at MTV. But their romance got off to a terrible start.
As Grohl explained in an interview with ELLE in 2007, after a few dates, he came to realize he wasn’t ready for anything serious and just stopped calling her. However, three months later, he received another call. And to his surprise, Blum picked up the phone and said, “Oh, I never thought I’d hear from you again.
But after the shaky start, the two eventually fell into a groove and tied the knot in a private ceremony at their Los Angeles home on August 2, 2003. Several music legends also attended the intimate event, including Grohl’s former Nirvana bandmate Krist Novosel.
Model to Music Collaborator
Before she met Grohl, Blum was a successful model who made her debut on the cover of Teen Magazine at the age of 12. She worked her way into television production on MTV’s staff.
She continued working in the music industry even after marrying Grohl. Blum appeared in Foo Fighters’ “White Limo” music video and co-directed their 2002 video “Walking a Line.” In a 2003 NME article, Blum’s contributions extended beyond her role as the rock star’s spouse, as evidenced by her designation as the band’s official “documentarian.”
We are currently living as a family of five (now six).
Grohl and Blum have three daughters: Violet, born in 2006; Harper, born in 2009; and Ophelia, born in 2014. The oldest of these, Violet, has already begun to follow her father’s footsteps into music, often appearing with him on stage. Last weekend at Glastonbury Festival 2023, Grohl called her his “favorite singer in the world” as the two prepared a duet of “Show Me How.”
But life threw him a curve, and this month, in September 2024, Grohl used his Instagram to inform his fans that he recently welcomed a fourth child, an illegitimate daughter from another woman. He then promised to be a loving and supportive parent to the new baby while putting in effort and commitment to renew trust and forgiveness with his family. “I love my wife and my children, and I am doing everything I can to regain their trust and earn their forgiveness,” he wrote.
A Private Life Mostly Out of the Spotlight
Since Blum married, she has never sought to be in the spotlight and rarely appears in public. When she does, it is usually to support Grohl at his career milestone events, such as a 2023 Grammy Awards appearance with Grohl and daughters, fashionably attired. It was a glimpse into this private world.
Blum wanted privacy even in 2018, when Grohl mentioned a health scare that happened to her on Jimmy Kimmel Live. While he guest-hosted the program, Grohl received a text from Blum that she wasn’t feeling well. It was a burst appendix, and she needed to get to the hospital straight away. Grohl made it there in time, showcasing their strong bonding even in moments of crisis.
The Muse for His Music
Blum has been more than just supportive; she’s been a muse for Grohl’s songwriting. The Foo Fighters’ “Statues,” off of their 2007 album Echoes, Silence, Patience & Grace, is a tribute to their relationship. In an interview, Grohl once mentioned that the song was about growing old with a partner, where there is nothing as beautiful as being head-to-head in some graveyard.
Another track, “Burn Away,” was also about Blum, showing just how much Grohl was into his future wife back when they were still dating.
Attending Events Together
Though she may like to keep a low profile, Blum does occasionally make her way into the limelight with Grohl. In July 2024, they were in Wimbledon, in the Royal Box, alongside celebrities such as David Beckham. Moments like these in their public lives show that, while Blum may want to be away from the spotlight, she is still there for Grohl during big moments.
Ahead
News about Grohl’s child outside the marriage has brought some unexpected challenges in their relationship. However, as Grohl publicly assumes responsibility for his family, there is a hint that they may resolve their issues together. This couple has endured a lot, but their bond seems strong enough.
Blum’s continued support and the history they share are evidence of a deeper connection that has kept them together for over two decades. As Grohl said, his wife and children keep him anchored in a world that is pretty much out of control and unpredictable.
Conclusion
Jordyn Blum might not be one to seek the spotlight, but her existence in Dave Grohl’s life sure can’t go unnoticed. Model, producer, muse—any of these titles fit her, but the most treasured seems to be that of a mother and supportive partner of one of rock’s most enduring figures. With their family entering the next phase of life, it would seem their love story is far from over.
